Are Ladies not checking for the Trainers?

Nike Lunar Glide 2 (The Shoes I Wore)

The other day i was walking into Wal-Mart and to no surprise to me a nice looking chick in was checking me out. She looked right in my face smiled looked down at my shoes and rolled her eyes. Lol. Now the shoes that was wearing weren't beat up or even raggedy, they were a pair of Nike trainers. Not only was I in a deep telephone conversation with my sister about the lack of shopping carts at this particular Wal-Mart, but I was also in a rush to get to the restroom in the store so what this young lady did didn't really hit me until i'd began shopping. It brought this question to mind; does the type of shoes a guy is wearing affect how women look at them? Now i don't have an answer for this question as of yet but i plan on finding one. The shoe thing is not an issue for me but i was just curious to know if a man has to bring out his "A" game every time or can we ever get a break.  If you think you can help me to answer either of these questions, post a comment. But if you are as stumped as I am just be looking out for further updates in the future...

Love & Peace Family

Casual Sex

A lot of you may not be aware of the fact that I am one of the biggest supporters of casual sex. I have yet to spot a flaw in this system. Sure i've seen the movies with the guys who get lonely and long for relationships or something real but i have yet to encounter this problem. If i do at one point in time get lonely i plan to get a dog. In my opinion there are just too many different types of beautiful women in this world with different personalities and stories to share for me to just be with 1. I know some of you are shaking your heads and calling me all kinds of names but i also know that i'm getting through to someone right now. I love women... I do, and i'm not out to hurt them or mistreat them, i just think that casual sex is easier on the heart than relationships. This is no disrespect to people in relationships. When I see people in healthy relationships it's beautiful, i just feel like having F*ck buddies is a better situation. Don't read this and avoid relationships from now on, this is just my opinion. if you feel differently, prove me wrong. If you can't, Shut Up. lol

Love & Peace Family

Beautiful Days = Beautiful Girls

The weather is finally beginning to break here in the Windy City and you can tell. Not only the lack of heavy coats, gloves, and scarves; but the sexiness level of the women. Sexiness, to me, is not what she is wearing but the way she carries herself. When the weathers cold and the wind is blowing here, the last thing on the mind of females is being sexy. They're focused on getting where they need to be, fast. Now that the weather has broken you will start to notice the women moving a bit slower, and wearing a lot less. Not only will you notice those things but you'll notice that the women are sexier now than they were a couple of weeks ago(and trust me they're not sexier now its just that now they are not covered up). My experience has shown me that women love to be sexy. They love to be admired. And most of all they love being beautiful. This knowledge will greatly benefit you this upcoming spring. It'll give you the chance to change up your routine, and change is always good. But never avoid being yourself (GOLDEN RULE). There is nothing worse, to a female, than a guy who is not real. So get out there in this great weather and find some girl that you genuinely think is beautiful and tell her(and lose the lame pick-up lines), and if she's interested pursue her but if she's not just keep it moving because trust me she's not the only beautiful one out.

Love & Peace Family

Question thats been bothering me all day

Fellas would yall rather have a Bad Chick with a F*cked up weave or some Fresh Kicks with dirty laces. The initial thought came across my mind when i saw this decent chick on Michigan Ave. with a horrible weave but fresh kicks with dirty laces. I was both disgusted and intrigued. I immediately started to think "what if she was cold... would it matter if her laces were dirty" then I started to think about possible causes of the battered weave and muddy laces... I came up with nothing. About 23 minutes into my 10:30 class i started to think(daydream) about which would I rather have if I had to choose; Bad Chick with the F*cked Up weave or Fresh Kicks with dirty ass laces. I've come to the conclusion that i'm never gonna come to a decision alone (seeing as how I love women and shoes so much) so since i got a blog now ill just ask the world.... please be honest